I’ve heard people say that they’ve been in Atlanta too long because everybody knows each other.
“Oh you’re dating her now? Yeah my boy used to date her a few years ago”
Atlanta has about half a million people. No bullshit, I’m surprised at this number cause I thought it’d be much more, but whatever. It is what it is.
Anyway, I connected with this young lady Tyla a few years ago. We connected via OkCupid and spoke every now and then. What caught my attention about her is that she said she was polyamorous (will talk about this in another post). We made plans to meet but they never materialized. Eventually, the connection faded. And then months later, we reconnected yet again. And once again, never managed to get together.
Fast forward to a few weeks ago. I randomly get added to some groupme dating chatroom. Here’s the irony of it. The woman who added me wasn’t Tyla, no, it was another woman Nita whom I dated a couple years ago as well. Me and Nita went out on one date and it went well, but I really wasn’t feeling her like that. So Nita adds me to this chat and I hit her up on the side just to say hi and catch up, and she completely sidelines me. No big deal really. Here’s where things get fun and interesting… Tyla is in the chat. Naturally, I slid in the DMs to say hi.
To my surprise, we connected really well despite all this time. We decided that we wanted to finally meet in person after all this time (wait does reconnecting count as starting over?). Fast forward a few days to the weekend. I don’t remember what exactly I had been doing but I had been out on the town and came home. Probably got home around 1AM. Tyla asked if she could come through. I figured, why not and let her slide. She came by and we stayed up just talking for a while until she fell asleep. The vibe was really good. In the morning, laying in bed, we continued talking but things started to get physical and we ended up having sex. When asked about it, she said she had no plans of letting things go that far (neither did I), but we were both cool with it. The sex was pretty good and definitely has potential to get better once we get to know each other in that way.We get along really well and will definitely continue seeing each other.
Truly ironic how we reconnected. I’m curious to see how this plays out… especially the polyamorous part.
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