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    Some weekend fun

    Tuesday, 07 May 2019 by SBM
    The weather is improving and now there’s no reason to be staying inside on the weekend. This weekend was no different and it was quite the adventure I must say. Friday night, I got hit up by one of my comet’s. For those who don’t know, a comet is someone who comes back around every
    • Published in Dates, Experiences
    Tagged under: comet, couple, lesbian, sex

    Basic Bitch Chronicles – Episode 2

    Sunday, 14 April 2019 by SBM
    I clearly suck at consistency when it comes to this blog, but I’m going to keep it going. Life loves to pull you in different directions, but alas, it’s a rainy Sunday, so I’m doing some writing (among other things). Anyway, let’s get to it. I was at a speed dating event. Well, it wasn’t
    • Published in Dates
    Tagged under: basic, lottery, speed dating

    The Case for the Pre-Date – A Man’s Perspective

    Monday, 28 January 2019 by SBM
    Hey folks! Happy New Year! I’ve been slacking on the blog but I’m getting back on the horse. There has been an article floating around the internet: So, What’s A Pre-Date Anyway? It came out last year, but seems to be making its rounds again (at least, on my social feeds anyway). I wasn’t going to
    • Published in Dates, Dating and Relationships, Lessons and Advice, Online Dating
    Tagged under: date, expensive, pre-date, starbucks

    I got Catfished

    Monday, 20 August 2018 by SBM
    We’ve all heard the stories and seen the TV show, but I never thought it would happen to me. I mean, there’s google image search, right? Alright, to be frank, it wasn’t a full catfish. I got “body” catfished. Listen… I connected with this woman online. She only had neck up photos (red flag I
    • Published in Dates, Experiences, Lessons and Advice, Online Dating
    Tagged under: catfish, fat, online dating, tinder

    Basic Bitch Chronicles – Episode 1

    Monday, 23 July 2018 by SBM
    This is going to be the first of many posts about my dates with basic bitches. Unfortunately, you can’t really spot them until it’s too late. I met this young lady at Atlantic Station. It was a typical summer evening and she was on the bench waiting for someone. I walked by and did a
    • Published in Dates, Didn't Make The Cut, Experiences
    Tagged under: barnes and noble, basic bitch, bookstore, date

    Sometimes… I can be a real ho

    Monday, 16 July 2018 by SBM
    Note: Before going further, this happened a couple months ago and I wrote this back then. Things have evolved since then. With that said, let’s get started… Not even gonna try to sugar coat it. Every now and then, I’ll have a week or weekend where I will have sexual contact with several women in
    • Published in Dates, Experiences, Online Dating
    Tagged under: ho, multiple, partners, sex

    Road trip

    Monday, 04 June 2018 by SBM
    So I recently had to travel to Florida to pick up a few items. It’s a long drive and I had no plans on staying the night, so naturally, I didn’t want to do this drive alone. I invited Stephanie to join me and promised her I’d take her to beach for a few hours
    • Published in Dates, Potentials
    Tagged under: conversation, road trip

    The youngin’

    Thursday, 31 May 2018 by SBM
    So, although I call her the youngin, she’s not THAT young. She’s 26. The reason why I call her the youngin’ though is because she acts younger than she is. There’s nothing wrong with this, but it is definitely a case of vastly different levels of life experiences. Having spoken to her and spent some
    • Published in Dates, Didn't Make The Cut
    Tagged under: immature, inexperienced, juvenile, youngin

    The hypocritical feminist

    Monday, 28 May 2018 by SBM
    Ah, the hypocritical feminist. This young lady was the front-runner. She (seemingly) ticked off the boxes. She was a bit on the younger side, but I was willing to give her a chance because of all the other qualities that she possessed. She was a very sweet woman, intelligent, surprisingly mature, and absolutely gorgeous. She
    • Published in Dates, Didn't Make The Cut
    Tagged under: feminist, hypocrite

    Yup, time to start over

    Thursday, 24 May 2018 by SBM
    So this past weekend, I saw 4 different women. 2 on Friday, 1 on Saturday, and 1 on Sunday. I probably spent close to $200 on dates between all of them. And after this weekend, I’m pretty sure all of them will be cut loose in the near future. Instead of making a stupid long
    • Published in Dates
    Tagged under: dates, expensive, money, weekend

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