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    Category: Didn’t Make The Cut

    Don’t wait until it’s too late…

    Wednesday, 28 November 2018 by SBM
    Once again, another form of personal torture that we put ourselves through. Although it took me far longer than it should have, I finally broke things off with Stephanie. Things came to a head for me when she came over not too long ago. I had been out in the city and she hit me
    • Published in Didn't Make The Cut, Exes, Experiences, Lessons and Advice
    Tagged under: don't wait, fix, too late

    Respect the “no”, lest you get hurt

    Thursday, 27 September 2018 by SBM
    Right in line with my last post, I ended things with another woman (and I have one more to write about as well). So a few weeks ago, I wrote about this woman I had been seeing for a while. As I stated in my post, I knew that I shouldn’t be entertaining her, despite
    • Published in Didn't Make The Cut, Experiences, Lessons and Advice
    Tagged under: no, rejection, respect

    That was short-lived…

    Monday, 24 September 2018 by SBM
    Remember a while back I reconnected with a young woman name Tyla who was polyamorous? Well, that dating journey has already come and gone. In the beginning, we spoke about polyamory and what we both wanted. Now I normally don’t date polyamorously, but I knew that if I were to go full bore into that lifestyle,
    • Published in Dating and Relationships, Didn't Make The Cut, Experiences, Potentials
    Tagged under: polyamory, tyla

    I should leave her alone but…

    Thursday, 06 September 2018 by SBM
    Alright, so I have been seeing this woman Mary off and on for about 2 years now. When we met, I knew immediately that nothing was going to come from it. Why? I don’t find her attractive. I did tell her early on that I wasn’t interested in anything serious with her, never told her
    • Published in Didn't Make The Cut, Experiences, Lessons and Advice
    Tagged under: leave her, mary, sex, unattractive

    Basic Bitch Chronicles – Episode 1

    Monday, 23 July 2018 by SBM
    This is going to be the first of many posts about my dates with basic bitches. Unfortunately, you can’t really spot them until it’s too late. I met this young lady at Atlantic Station. It was a typical summer evening and she was on the bench waiting for someone. I walked by and did a
    • Published in Dates, Didn't Make The Cut, Experiences
    Tagged under: barnes and noble, basic bitch, bookstore, date

    Laura

    Thursday, 07 June 2018 by SBM
    Laura… Laura, Laura, Laura… This woman is truly an enigma for me and I’m not really sure how to deal with her. We connected a few months ago and the conversation was great right off the bat. We went out on our first date and honestly, couldn’t have asked for a better time. We had
    • Published in Didn't Make The Cut, Potentials
    Tagged under: children, dating, kids, mother

    Stephanie

    Wednesday, 06 June 2018 by SBM
    So this is a woman that I’ve been seeing for several months now. We started off great, great vibe, great company, great sex, etc. Things never really progressed though. Despite how much time we’ve spent together, I can’t honestly say I’m any closer to her than when we first met. I’ve tried to connect with
    • Published in Didn't Make The Cut, Potentials
    Tagged under: easy, no direction, no drama, no future

    The youngin’

    Thursday, 31 May 2018 by SBM
    So, although I call her the youngin, she’s not THAT young. She’s 26. The reason why I call her the youngin’ though is because she acts younger than she is. There’s nothing wrong with this, but it is definitely a case of vastly different levels of life experiences. Having spoken to her and spent some
    • Published in Dates, Didn't Make The Cut
    Tagged under: immature, inexperienced, juvenile, youngin

    The hypocritical feminist

    Monday, 28 May 2018 by SBM
    Ah, the hypocritical feminist. This young lady was the front-runner. She (seemingly) ticked off the boxes. She was a bit on the younger side, but I was willing to give her a chance because of all the other qualities that she possessed. She was a very sweet woman, intelligent, surprisingly mature, and absolutely gorgeous. She
    • Published in Dates, Didn't Make The Cut
    Tagged under: feminist, hypocrite

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