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    She acts like she’s my mother

    Thursday, 23 May 2019 by SBM
    I recently heard a guy complaining about his girlfriend. Apparently, she constantly nags him about doings and what she wants from him. Now normally in these situations, guys are quick to sympathize, as we’ve all had the experience of a nagging girlfriend. But I want to propose a different idea: Maybe you’re acting like a
    • Published in Dating and Relationships, Experiences, Lessons and Advice
    Tagged under: brat, child, mother, responsibility, spoiled

    Some weekend fun

    Tuesday, 07 May 2019 by SBM
    The weather is improving and now there’s no reason to be staying inside on the weekend. This weekend was no different and it was quite the adventure I must say. Friday night, I got hit up by one of my comet’s. For those who don’t know, a comet is someone who comes back around every
    • Published in Dates, Experiences
    Tagged under: comet, couple, lesbian, sex

    Don’t wait until it’s too late…

    Wednesday, 28 November 2018 by SBM
    Once again, another form of personal torture that we put ourselves through. Although it took me far longer than it should have, I finally broke things off with Stephanie. Things came to a head for me when she came over not too long ago. I had been out in the city and she hit me
    • Published in Didn't Make The Cut, Exes, Experiences, Lessons and Advice
    Tagged under: don't wait, fix, too late

    Respect the “no”, lest you get hurt

    Thursday, 27 September 2018 by SBM
    Right in line with my last post, I ended things with another woman (and I have one more to write about as well). So a few weeks ago, I wrote about this woman I had been seeing for a while. As I stated in my post, I knew that I shouldn’t be entertaining her, despite
    • Published in Didn't Make The Cut, Experiences, Lessons and Advice
    Tagged under: no, rejection, respect

    That was short-lived…

    Monday, 24 September 2018 by SBM
    Remember a while back I reconnected with a young woman name Tyla who was polyamorous? Well, that dating journey has already come and gone. In the beginning, we spoke about polyamory and what we both wanted. Now I normally don’t date polyamorously, but I knew that if I were to go full bore into that lifestyle,
    • Published in Dating and Relationships, Didn't Make The Cut, Experiences, Potentials
    Tagged under: polyamory, tyla

    Some lessons from polyamory

    Thursday, 13 September 2018 by SBM
    I’ve learned a couple things since I started dating Tyla a few weeks ago. If you recall, Tyla is full on polyamorous. Although this term has gotten much more popular, I still feel it’s best to define what it means. Polyamorous in general means simply being involved with more than one person romantically. I’m not
    • Published in Dating and Relationships, Experiences, Lessons and Advice, Potentials
    Tagged under: jealousy, monogamy, multiple, polyamory, possessiveness, selfishness

    I should leave her alone but…

    Thursday, 06 September 2018 by SBM
    Alright, so I have been seeing this woman Mary off and on for about 2 years now. When we met, I knew immediately that nothing was going to come from it. Why? I don’t find her attractive. I did tell her early on that I wasn’t interested in anything serious with her, never told her
    • Published in Didn't Make The Cut, Experiences, Lessons and Advice
    Tagged under: leave her, mary, sex, unattractive

    I got Catfished

    Monday, 20 August 2018 by SBM
    We’ve all heard the stories and seen the TV show, but I never thought it would happen to me. I mean, there’s google image search, right? Alright, to be frank, it wasn’t a full catfish. I got “body” catfished. Listen… I connected with this woman online. She only had neck up photos (red flag I
    • Published in Dates, Experiences, Lessons and Advice, Online Dating
    Tagged under: catfish, fat, online dating, tinder

    Commitment…. gone wrong

    Monday, 30 July 2018 by SBM
    I figured after the previous post, it would be a good idea to speak on what happens when the proper commitments are not made. So here it goes… In my most recent relationship, I was 100% committed to her and the relationship. Before she and I had even met, I told myself that I wanted my
    • Published in Dating and Relationships, Exes, Experiences, Lessons and Advice
    Tagged under: blame, commitment, ex, self

    Basic Bitch Chronicles – Episode 1

    Monday, 23 July 2018 by SBM
    This is going to be the first of many posts about my dates with basic bitches. Unfortunately, you can’t really spot them until it’s too late. I met this young lady at Atlantic Station. It was a typical summer evening and she was on the bench waiting for someone. I walked by and did a
    • Published in Dates, Didn't Make The Cut, Experiences
    Tagged under: barnes and noble, basic bitch, bookstore, date
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