The Case for the Pre-Date – A Man’s Perspective

Hey folks! Happy New Year! I’ve been slacking on the blog but I’m getting back on the horse. There has been an article floating around the internet: So, What’s A Pre-Date Anyway? It came out last year, but seems to be making its rounds again (at least, on my social feeds anyway). I wasn’t going to
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I got Catfished

We’ve all heard the stories and seen the TV show, but I never thought it would happen to me. I mean, there’s google image search, right? Alright, to be frank, it wasn’t a full catfish. I got “body” catfished. Listen… I connected with this woman online. She only had neck up photos (red flag I
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Online Dating for Black People

Online dating is such a huge topic and there are so many subtopics to cover. This is just the start of several more posts I can assure you I’ll be making. I wanted to start off by talking about online dating as a person of color. Why? Because after speaking to my brothers and sisters,
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The Interrogation

Has this ever happened to you… You’re talking to someone (either in person or online), and it feels like you’re interrogating them? Or maybe it’s the other way around and you feel you’re being interrogated? Here’s a quick example…. “Where you from?” “New York” “Oh ok, cool. I’ve been there a few times” “That’s cool”
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Sometimes… I can be a real ho

Note: Before going further, this happened a couple months ago and I wrote this back then. Things have evolved since then. With that said, let’s get started… Not even gonna try to sugar coat it. Every now and then, I’ll have a week or weekend where I will have sexual contact with several women in
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