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Stop complaining! Do this instead…
Monday, 27 August 2018
Complaints. We all have them, whether we voice them or not, we all have them. Usually, they come after you two have been in a relationship for a while. You know the usual, “you used to do this for me” or “why don’t we do that anymore”. We’ve all been there and look, I get
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Physical Dealbreakers
Thursday, 23 August 2018
This is an interesting topic that I’ve heard many differing opinions on. How many of you have heard one of these phrases or some combination of them: I only date guys taller than 6′ I only date guys with a beard I only date light/dark skinned men or women I only date women natural/straight/curly hair
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I got Catfished
Monday, 20 August 2018
We’ve all heard the stories and seen the TV show, but I never thought it would happen to me. I mean, there’s google image search, right? Alright, to be frank, it wasn’t a full catfish. I got “body” catfished. Listen… I connected with this woman online. She only had neck up photos (red flag I
- Published in Dates, Experiences, Lessons and Advice, Online Dating
I Deserve Better! – Yeah? So what?!
Thursday, 16 August 2018
I hear a lot of women say that they deserve this or that. I honestly have always found it strange. Never in my life have I said anything to the effect of, “I deserve some dessert because I had a hard day”. Honestly, the phrase “I deserve…” I have rarely heard come from men. Why
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Online Dating for Black People
Monday, 13 August 2018
Online dating is such a huge topic and there are so many subtopics to cover. This is just the start of several more posts I can assure you I’ll be making. I wanted to start off by talking about online dating as a person of color. Why? Because after speaking to my brothers and sisters,
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Who does your ideal partner want?
Thursday, 09 August 2018
When I was younger, I would fantasize about the woman I wanted to be with. I could see her clearly, her personality, all her amazing qualities. And I would get so excited to think about this woman and I couldn’t wait to meet her. But something happened following those thoughts; a question popped into my
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What’s his Fuckboy Score?
Monday, 06 August 2018
Ladies, are you dating or talking to a guy and you’re not sure if he’s a fuckboy or not? Well, look no further. Go through this list and tally up his score, the answer will become clear. He drives a camaro, mustang, challenger, or charger – 10 He has a credit score less than 650
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The Interrogation
Thursday, 02 August 2018
Has this ever happened to you… You’re talking to someone (either in person or online), and it feels like you’re interrogating them? Or maybe it’s the other way around and you feel you’re being interrogated? Here’s a quick example…. “Where you from?” “New York” “Oh ok, cool. I’ve been there a few times” “That’s cool”
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Commitment…. gone wrong
Monday, 30 July 2018
I figured after the previous post, it would be a good idea to speak on what happens when the proper commitments are not made. So here it goes… In my most recent relationship, I was 100% committed to her and the relationship. Before she and I had even met, I told myself that I wanted my
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Commitment
Thursday, 26 July 2018
I could write several posts on this single word (and probably will). We hear it all the time, “I need commitment”, “they’re afraid to commit”, “why can’t people just commit?”, etc. I’m sure you’ve either heard or said some variant or another of these phrases. Having been in committed relationships where I was fully committed
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